I wrote this poem the day my dad died on February 21, 2000.

None, was a greater man than he.

Not one, a greater father than him.

 

Happy Father’s Day, Daddy!!  This is for you.

 

 

"My Daddy"

 

A strong man

with strong hands,

a strong heart and mind-

That was my daddy.

 

A gentle man

with gentle hands,

a gentle heart and mind-

That was my daddy.

 

So wise, so smart,

So good and kind,

So huge was his heart-

That was my daddy.

 

He knew so much

so much I learned

from listening to his stories,

But, no matter if he’d win or lose,

he was still a man of glory.

 

He gave with a selfless heart,

he gave so willingly.

His main concern was not himself,

but only his family.

 

His family was his pride and joy.

We were his motivation.

Especially that little one,

Teodora kept him on his toes-

For her, he’d watch the same Barney video a million times,

and even sing along to words he didn’t know.

 

The sacrifices he made,

the love and support he gave

was all we really needed,

His honesty, his dignity, his modesty,

his steadfast integrity

was how he had succeeded.

 

He’d go to work

despite the pain.

He’d drive us places

despite the rain.

And every night, he’d kneel before God to pray,

and thanked him for the life he lived each day.

He loved the Lord so dearly

for he was his life’s foundation.

There was no doubt in his mind

that God was his salvation.

 

All who encountered him

could instantly tell

he knew how to fight,

and he fought well

to get what he wanted in life.

And all who knew him

could be certain

knew he would fight until the battle was won.

 

His confidence and boldness

commanded the respect of those nearby,

But it did not stop him

from wiping a tear,

holding a hand,

or lending an ear.

That was my daddy.

 

The way he signed his name,

the sound of his voice,

his big, strong brown hands,

his lips always most,

the curl of his black hair,

the size of his feet,

his huge square glasses,

his desk not always neat.

 

All of these things

wer a part of this man;

all these things

we loved so dearly about him.

And whether you knew him for life,

or if you were only the one who rang up his groceries

at the supermarket,

You can be sure that

you will never forget him.

And that is my daddy.

 

“The poem is dedicated in memory of my incredibly wonderful father, Maurice, who passed away on February 21, 2000 at 8:30 in the morning.  He was 57 years old, and he’ll be turning 58 on March 13, 2000.  He was born in 1942 in Washington D.C.  I was incredibly blessed enough to have him as a father for 15 incredible years and 3 months.  I will forever love him and admire him."